
I download sermons by Chuck Swindoll to listen to on my iPod. I have the greatest privledge in hearing him every Sunday at church, but I enjoy listening to some of his other sermons. Getting Through the Tough Stuff is his latest series and so I listened to one on “confrontation”. Do I have friends of comfort or character? Do I have friends that tell me when I’m out of line and help to shape my character?
Over these past few weeks, I’ve really been examining my friendships. I have friends from all all aspects of my life. My closest friend has known me since junior high school. And I’m proud to say that we still make time to spend with each other even though we live over an hour apart and both keep a busy life. She has seen me through my hardest time, and I have seen her through as well. I value her friendship greatly, and while she is married, is a homeowner and is more ’settled’ than me as a result, we still have commonalities. Did I mention that we lived together out of college and still remain friends! We will be friends for life.
My friends since then can be what I call fair-weathered. I took having a loyal friend for granted. I just figured that everyone is like my friend Debster. I am wanting to find a couple of really good friends. Those that aren’t there some days and then there only when they need you. I need to start picking my friends like I pick dates. I don’t just date anyone. So why be friend with just anyone? It’s not that I can’t have acquaintances! But I need to be a better judge of character when choosing friends and allow myself to let a friendship pass if it isn’t a good match.
My simple prayer request is to find a couple girls that want a new friend! And not just any friend, but a friend of character.